New Name, Same Great Taste

Yes, I've finally changed my blogs' infamous title, though I will always remember the MILF days. lol

I thought I'd go with something equally as confusing as not to throw anyone off about my true intent.
As Shakespear said, "Whats in a name? A rose by any other name would smell just as sweet"
And so, here I am, transforming from Capulet to Montegue, hoping it will calm the blog waters of the recent concern I've caused some individuals.

Something I should really clear up here since I've got your attention, at least the two of you anyway. I have always been a fan of
"Free Association Writing".

I'm sure it's the same procedure shrinks and lawyers have their serial killer clients do just to clear their conscience of any wrong doing they MAY have committed.
Basically, you write "off the cuff" as the thoughts flow into your mind.
I believe it's the most honest form of journaling.

With my blog, I've written about whatever fancied me at the moment, whatever was floating around in the old melon at that very second.
I don't reasearch CNN articles to look for the latest debate topic in politics, and I don't think about what would interest my readers. I'm not a publisher, just a blogger letting my ideas and parts of my personal life take a jog around the internet to see who they may meet.
If you want debate topics and Bob Villa tips of the day, visit Aarons blog.
He's GREAT at that. www.sub2change.blogspot.com

It was never my intension to hint at even the slightest notion that I am unhappy with my marriage or my family. Quite the opposite actually.
Do I get a little frumpy when my hubby is gone for a week and I'm forced to go it alone with my 2 bundles of energy, 5 balls of fur and a 65 year old father constantly telling me what I'm doing wrong? Yeah that'll do it. But I wouldn't change it if I could.

And as I've told a few friends as they (very lovingly) came to me with their concerns,
"If I went on and on about the mind blowing sex Kevin and I have on a somewhat regular basis and gave you minute to minute, or hour to hour coverage, you'd probably talk to me even less than you do now!"
Of course I was joking, as I do often enough, my point was that the topics I chose to discuss were not supposed to be an indicator of any family or marital strife.

Ask anyone who is married, been married, or just has children and they'll tell you that there are times they just need to leave the room to get a little alone time from the chaos that ensumes in the familial environment.

Just today my husband sent me an email about how women were like hurricanes, they come on fast, hot and wet, but by the time they're done, your house, car, etc are gone.
Or how 'bout this one,
"A Man Is Incomplete Until He's Married, Then He's Finished"
I bet that one was a chinese proverb!
See, it's okay for men to joke at little things like that, but bring up the word MILF and they're ready to reinstate Saddam to keep me in line.
Ha! There was my political joke.

Bottom line. I love my husband, I love my kids.
Have I put that life long dream of going to Africa on the back burner for now? Yes,
But will I be in my early 40's when I kick my kids out of my house so I can start packing for Kilimanjaro?
...I've already picked out out my underwear.