What women really want: The List

I told you I was going to publish a LIST of what I think women really want. What we want out of friendship, out of life and even out of a partner. I wanted to hit the nail on the head of what it is that really turns us on about men.
I shouldn't be too far off, cause at times, I've been compared to a woman, so how hard can it be right? I may have purposely missed a few important items in the feeble attempt to prompt response from you. So without further adeu....

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT???

Women want to be desired. Plain and simple.

We want really great hair, without a lot of fuss of course.

We want to spend a lot of quality time with our partner. The definition of which differs drastically between the sexes.

At the same time, women want to spend more time with their friends. Women need thier girlfriends. And not the girlfriends men visualize us having.

Women want to be intelligent and attractive, emancipated and maternal, affectionate and strong. Women are good at multi-tasking.

Now listen very closely guys, cause I'm talking cosmic secrets here: Confidence... not arrogance, not dominance, not one-upsmanship, not useless bravado, not macho heroics. We just love truly confident men.

We want to see you dance with our daughters--- when she's a baby, a little lady, a difficult teenager, and finally, when she becomes someones wife one day. You are the most important relationship she'll ever have with another man. Make it matter.

We want to eat expensive chocolates and not be asked why, or what the difference is between Godiva and Walgreens brand.

We want our parents to like you. Really.

(this ones for my beautiful sister in law who recently got engaged) There are times that we really want you to come to family or social function's with us...even if you dread the thought of it, please just do it for us. You'll be saving yourself in the future

Just once, we'd like to see YOU cry during a movie. It's part of that confidence thing.

We don't want to be laughed at when we cry during a movie either.

Women really want you to know that we're stronger than you think.

Although woman like to believe a man is willing to deal with a lot of things, what really counts is that they are able to deal with us. A healthy, mature woman resists impassioned commitment to a man who is afraid of her sexuality, her intelligence, or her emotions.

Women need to borrow clothing from their girlfriends. It's just something we have to do.

We want to be the most beautiful woman in your eyes, no matter what.

We want to be told we're the most beautiful woman to you...and be able to believe it.

We want our career to be important. Though it should NEVER be more important than the relationship between a man and woman. And that goes the same for a man's career too.

Women want and need to laugh. Any man that can make us laugh is in like flynn.

We really need that one girlfriend that we can tell anything to. Good or bad...and know that we're safe.

Women really need you to know that size dosen't matter, but it helps

Women need to remember that when you feel you can't love anymore, thats when you most need to love yourself.

We really need to know who we are seperate from being so-in-so's girlfriend or wife (thats NOT to be taken negatively guys)

Women want shoes more than you know (duhhh)

We really want you to help potty train our son's

In addition to potty training, women need you to teach our son's to be responsible, respectable men. There are just some things that dads can, and should do better than moms.

Women really want that one dress that makes us look amazing...

And women want the accessories to go with it

Women need to listen to sappy songs that make us cry, over and over. Deal with it.

Women want thier men to go shopping with them, and find an outfit that would stop them in their tracks if they saw us wearing it out. Then buy it, knowing it'll never get past the bedroom floor.

We want our wedding day to be important to you.

We want to support our friends and spouses in whatever they do. Sometimes that may cause conflict between the friends and spouses. Please try to understand.

We'll always try to make you feel like the conquerer of our hearts. But chances are, there was someone here before that loved us very much. Please don't be jelous. We want you to know that they contributed to who we are today.

Women really want romance

Women really want world peace

And this woman really wants to know what you think.

Disclaimer: Make no assumptions. This is not a Wish List for my husband. So don't start writing me about that. Everyone has thier flaws, thats what makes us unique. I'll have you know that Kevin has preformed many of these "tasks" or "wishes" I've discussed... so for the most part, I'm a lucky girl.
But he's LUCKIER! hee hee